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Questions and myths for mothers

Clear answers to common questions, with age guidance and reliable sources. Your context and your care team matter.

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Pregnancy

Pregnancy

Is a little alcohol during pregnancy safe?

No amount or stage of pregnancy is known to be safe for alcohol use. This includes alcoholic home-brewed drinks.

What can I do?

If you have had alcohol, stop and discuss it without shame at your appointment. Ask for support if stopping is difficult.

Source · CDC ↗

Feeding

Breastfeeding

Alcohol after birth: must I stop breastfeeding?

Not drinking is the safest choice. Alcohol enters milk; pumping and discarding milk does not remove alcohol faster. Drinking does not automatically mean permanent weaning.

What can I do?

Ask for advice about feeding according to the amount and timing. A sober adult should care for the baby if you are affected by alcohol.

Source · CDC ↗

From six months

Must breastfeeding stop at nine months?

No. WHO recommends continued breastfeeding to two years or beyond, with appropriate complementary foods from six months.

What can I do?

Continuing or weaning should work for you and your child. Complementary foods do not require automatically stopping breastfeeding at nine months.

Source · OMS / WHO ↗

Age and feeding matter

Should a baby never be given water?

Before six months, a healthy exclusively breastfed baby does not need extra water even in hot weather: offer more feeds. Needs change when complementary feeding starts at six months.

What can I do?

For formula, follow preparation instructions and safe-water guidance exactly. Do not add extra water to dilute feeds. During illness, this rule does not replace assessment or prescribed rehydration treatment.

Source · OMS / WHO ↗

Complementary foods, from six months

Cerelac and other cereals: how should I choose?

A whole brand cannot be judged without knowing the formula sold in your country. Compare age guidance, ingredients, added sugars, texture and preparation instructions. WHO advises against adding sugar to complementary foods.

What can I do?

Show the package or a photo to your professional if needed. Offer varied age-appropriate local foods prepared hygienically; a commercial product is not essential.

Source · OMS / WHO ↗

Daily care

All infants

What can I do when my baby cries a lot?

Check hunger, nappy, temperature and need for contact. Try holding, a calm voice and gentle rocking. Never shake a baby.

What can I do?

If overwhelmed, put your baby safely in their cot and ask for help. Unusual crying, appearing unwell or difficulty feeding needs medical advice.

Source · NHS ↗

Multiple birth

How can I organise care for twins or triplets?

Breastfeeding several babies is possible. Feeding can be sequential or simultaneous according to your comfort. Each child has individual needs, especially if born prematurely.

What can I do?

Keep a separate record and weight follow-up for each child. Arrange help for meals, rest and travel. If one baby feeds or grows less, arrange individual assessment.

Source · NHS ↗

Infants and young children

How can I recognise and manage constipation?

Constipation mainly means hard, painful or difficult stools; the number of days alone is not enough. Advice depends on age and feeding.

What can I do?

Seek advice, especially for a very young baby. Follow formula proportions. Do not improvise laxatives, enemas or traditional remedies; ask for age-appropriate treatment.

Source · NHS ↗

Premature birth

How should I care for a premature baby?

A premature baby needs an individual plan for feeding, warmth, weight, treatment and appointments. Kangaroo skin-to-skin care can be very helpful when explained and supported by the team.

What can I do?

Learn positioning that keeps the airway clear. Skin-to-skin care does not replace necessary treatment or equipment. Before discharge, obtain instructions and signs requiring urgent return.

Source · OMS / WHO ↗

When to seek help

Accident

Can I give first aid myself?

Appropriate first aid can help while waiting for a professional, but choking procedures differ below and above one year. Practical training is better than improvising.

What can I do?

Breathing difficulty, unconsciousness or a swallowed button battery needs urgent help. Do not delay going to a health facility to search the app.

Source · NHS ↗

Urgent help and appointments

When should my baby be seen?

A temperature of 38°C or above below three months needs urgent assessment. Difficulty breathing, seizures, very poor responsiveness or not waking normally are warning signs.

What can I do?

This list is not exhaustive. Seek advice if your baby feeds less, behaves differently or worries you. If a paediatrician is unavailable, use the qualified health facility you can reach fastest.

Source · NHS ↗

Fall or head injury

My child falls: how should I react?

A fall cannot be assessed only by a visible bump. Unconsciousness, seizures, vomiting or unusual behaviour after a head injury need prompt assessment.

What can I do?

Seek emergency help if your child does not wake or has serious symptoms. After medical advice, follow monitoring instructions. When unsure, seek assessment rather than assuming everything is fine.

Source · NHS ↗

After birth

After birth

Is sex forbidden after giving birth?

There is no single waiting period for everyone. Resuming sex depends on desire, consent, healing and comfort. Discuss pain or concerns with your midwife or doctor.

What can I do?

Pregnancy is possible from three weeks after birth, even while breastfeeding and before periods return. Discuss contraception. Follow individual advice after complications, caesarean birth or tears.

Source · NHS ↗

Sources checked on 4 October 2026. These general answers do not replace a consultation or an individual care plan.

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